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  • From “Perfect Housewife” Shift Dresses To A “Rock ‘n’ Roll” Gown, The Fashion In Sirens Is Full Of Easter Eggs

    From “Perfect Housewife” Shift Dresses To A “Rock ‘n’ Roll” Gown, The Fashion In Sirens Is Full Of Easter Eggs

    Mild spoilers for Sirens, premiering on May 22, ahead.

    In Netflix’s new steamy thriller Sirens, on the lavish grounds of Cliff House — located on an exclusive, unnamed island in the vein of Martha’s Vineyard — the decadent dress code is more than just an etiquette guideline. “What is this place and why does everyone look like an Easter egg?!” exclaims Devon (Meghann Fahy) to her estranged younger sister Simone (Milly Alcock), an assistant to the palatial beach estate’s doyenne, Michaela Kell (Julianne Moore) — or “Kiki” to the anointed. 

    Surrounded by floral-clad Stepford-type denizens, a disheveled Devon, out of place in all black, pleads for help from Simone, who, in contrast, is wearing brash pink. Their father, Bruce (Bill Camp), has dementia, but Simone refuses to leave her formidable boss and the lap of luxury. Devon surmises that her baby sister has been seduced by a cult led by the enigmatic Michaela. A suspenseful push and pull of women’s relationships, money, and power ensues — and the luxurious wardrobes by costume designer Caroline Duncan offer figurative Easter eggs leading to the climactic finale.

    Devon’s Subversive Black Outfit

    Sirens. Meghann Fahy as Devon in episode 101 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    Arriving at Cliff House after a night in jail and a grueling 17-hour journey from Buffalo – including bus, ferry, and on-foot travel — Devon hasn’t changed out of her all-black outfit: a black tank top, a Babaton mini skirt, and Thursday combat boots. “When we meet Devon, she’s at a low point,” says Duncan. “She’s got alcohol and sexual impulsivity issues, and we wanted to put her in something where we could see the scabs and dirt on her skin, but also show that she’s emboldened by showing her skin. Part of her addiction comes from that confidence.”

    On the ferry, Devon visually — and spiritually — clashes with the posh summering crowd in pastel outfits straight out of Lilly Pulitzer and Vineyard Vines campaigns. But things are about to change, and the mint-green lace trim that Duncan added to Devon’s camisole alludes to Michaela’s meticulously manicured enclave and the intrigue to come. “Planting that little seed of her journey,” says Duncan.

    Michaela’s Otherworldly Neutrals

    Sirens. Julianne Moore in episode 104 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    Devon becomes convinced that Michaela, who’s planning an extravagant Labor Day fundraiser gala for her rare bird preservation charity, is a cult leader. Adding to the vibe, the philanthropist — in a billowing white halter tunic and flowy pants — wields a fowl-topped baton to lead her devotées in an invocation of her sign-off mantra: “Hey, hey.”

    “Our intent was to always have the audience questioning what the mythos surrounding her, and the lore of her, was,” says Duncan, who custom-made most of Moore’s other costumes. “I wanted her to feel like she was always floating and above the fracas of the real world.” 

    Taking inspiration from ‘70s-era Lee Radziwill and Italian brand Alberta Ferretti’s ethereal silhouettes, Duncan made Michaela’s halter ensemble with vintage silk from a distributor also used by Halston, a brand whose silky garments were worn by the likes of Liza Minnelli and Bianca Jagger. Later, the de facto empress of the island presides over her disciples in a luminous one-shoulder caftan gown by The Row.

    Duncan imagined that the ambitious lawyer-turned-billionaire-trophy-wife made her mark on the impressionable island community by formulating a color-coded wardrobe “rulebook.” But, in the ultimate flex, Michaela’s own distinctive palette of neutrals is an ongoing, eye-catching exception. “Everyone else around Michaela is in this flutter of beautiful color, and she’s this visual pause,” says Duncan. “Which, of course, means that she’s the person you’re looking at, at all times, in the room.”

    Michaela’s alabaster layers also boldly counter Devon’s rebellious, grungey style as the two face off over Simone’s allegiance toward the end of episode one. “Everybody else in between them is in a powder puff of color, but the two are the binaries of the show,” says Duncan.

    Sirens. Julianne Moore in episode 102 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    Simone’s Try-Hard Pinks and Commanding Blues

    Sirens. Milly Alcock as Simone in episode 101 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    Simone regularly barks orders at the Cliff House staff through a megaphone. Her bright pink mod-style dress with a precious white trim, from a Goop x Lilly Pulitzer collaboration, amplifies her relentless determination to fulfill Michaela’s directives. 

    “Simone’s got to be obnoxious,” says Duncan. “It’s like the dial is just turned up way too high. She’s vibrating far too brightly, and she’s trying way too hard to fit in. So everything about her feels extra, and she is in a hotter color than everyone else in that world.”

    As Simone’s character evolves, she transitions to cooler shades of blue, starting with a custom sleeveless Pulitzer-referential dress. “Blue very much felt like a moment; a marker for Simone feeling more in control,” says Duncan, who also made an exquisitely draped, silvery-blue asymmetrical gown for Simone for a jaw-dropping moment later in the season. 

    “She starts to feel a little bit bolder and a step wiser,” says Duncan, “Her need for this perfection, and her desire to match Michaela’s level of perfection, starts to wane.” 

    Sirens. (L to R) Kevin Bacon as Peter Kell, Milly Alcock as Simone in episode 105 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    Devon’s Red Statement Dress

    After her initial showdown with Michaela, Devon is briefly banished to a luxury hotel on the island — on the Kell family tab. Taking advantage of her new expense account to finally change out of her two-day-old outfit, she buys a bold crimson Francesca Miranda dress, featuring the Colombia-based designer’s pata de cabra technique of slinky, draped strips of fabric.

    “It felt like Devon would love that dress, because it’s exoskeletal and it moves and it’s bold,” says Duncan, who worked with the label to customize the dress with monochrome red lining. “It moves so beautifully, and the color is so defiant. We’re not a world of primary colors in Sirens.”

    As the signature color of Devon’s hometown team, the Buffalo Bills, red also indicates Devon’s humble roots — something  Simone disavows by cryptically saying she’s from “upstate.”

    Devon’s Michaela-Approved Outfits

    Sirens. Meghann Fahy as Devon in episode 103 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    In an effort to “extract” Simone, Devon decides to infiltrate the presumed cult and ingratiates herself with Michaela by agreeing to dress the part. She changes into a Michaela-approved sleeveless shift dress with a vintage Lilly Pulitzer print, delicate cut-outs at the neckline, and fabric-covered buttons. Michaela’s dress choice conveys her control and manipulation of Devon at Cliff House, with Duncan referring to the look as a “cage dress.” 

    “There’s a lot of intention to that. Michaela is putting her in a dress that feels very ‘60s,” continues Duncan. “To Devon, that image of a ‘perfect housewife’ is her nightmare version of femininity.” Devon even devises her own chant, as she dons a padded lilac Jennifer Behr headband and matching ballet flats by Christian Louboutin. “Fuck you, Michaela,” she mutters. “Fuck you, Michaela.” 

    But, nearly overnight, Devon eases into her second Cliff House-coded outfit: a yellow-and-blue shift dress with a seashell print, Castaner sandals, and an adorable lemon-shaped straw bag. “As we get further and further into our story, she is tempted by the siren call of this world,” says Duncan.

    Devon’s Goddess Gala Gown

    Ahead of the opulent Labor Day gala, Devon luxuriates in her own Pretty Woman-esque shopping montage — cheered on by Michaela’s free-spending society cronies: The Fates-like Lisa, Astrid, and Cloe (Erin Neufer, Emily Borromeo, and Jen Lyon, respectively). 

    “I look like Beetlejuice,” opines Devon, drowning in a voluminous yellow Carolina Herrera dress covered in ruffles and giant black polka dots. She also nixes a feather-blanketed Marchesa gown and oversized hat by Rachel Trevor Morgan and a jarringly bright yellow column gown with a colossal bow at the back by Alexia María with custom Lacrasia gloves. But Devon falls under the spell of an ombrê purple goddess dress with a plunging neckline, finished off with a golden laurel tiara.

    “She would need to feel incredibly powerful and beautiful,” says Duncan, who custom-designed the “painterly” gown with elements that would express, and appeal to, Devon. 

    “This deep plunge and very, very minimalist bust, with more of a rock ‘n’ roll element pulled through it,” continues Duncan. “Even though it’s quite a feminine and Grecian silhouette, it’s also got an edge to it that keeps it in Devon’s world.”

    Micaela’s Majestic Jewel Tones

    Sirens. Julianne Moore as Michaela in episode 105 of Sirens. Cr. Macall Polay/Netflix © 2025

    As Simone’s traumatic past and Michaela’s true intentions come to the fore, the latter’s neutrals transition into jewel tones — like a sleeveless emerald green dress with a flowing train by Maria Cornejo. 

    “We’re bringing Simone and Michaela’s color palettes closer together,” says Duncan, explaining how the draped and twisted details of Michaela’s green dress mirror a sapphire gown that Simone tries on in her boss’ walk-in closet.

    Michaela readies for the high-stakes gala in a resplendent strapless marigold gown accessorized with a stunning Solange statement necklace and earrings set. “She’s the queen of this society. She’s the leader,” says Duncan. “She’s a goddess.” 

    But all reigns come to an end, by will or not — and all the Easter eggs leading to the explosive finale lie hidden in the costumes.
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  • The Best Street Style From Australian Fashion Week 2025

    The Best Street Style From Australian Fashion Week 2025

    Sydney’s most anticipated style event finally happened. Australian Fashion Week 2025, held at Carriageworks in Sydney last week, was one of the best fashion events of the year for Australia, with established and up-and-coming designers strutting their Resort 2025 collections in front of the sartorial elite, including top fashion editors, style influencers, and the world’s top buyers. While some incredible shows were on the list, including AFW debuts and off-site spectacles, we found that many of the biggest trends for the upcoming seasons could be seen outside the runways. Australian Fashion Week street style is renowned for setting trends and reflecting prominent fashion personalities, whether guests prefer classic minimalism, bold hues, or unique layering. Last year’s AFW street style saw a wave of Australian designer threads, and this year was no different. 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  • The Millennium Tour Gave Us More Than Nostalgia—It Was A Reset

    The Millennium Tour Gave Us More Than Nostalgia—It Was A Reset

    Say what you want about millennials that we’re obsessed with nostalgia, stuck in the early 2000s or whatever but the Millennium Tour reminded me exactly why we hold on so tight. The music, the dancing, the Baby Phat jeans. It wasn’t just a concert. It was a reset.

    We’ve been catching heat from Boomers and Gen Z for a while now. Boomers think we’re entitled. Gen Z thinks we’re lacking authenticity and holding onto an identity crisis while being stuck in a ‘90s fantasy.

    Call me a typical millennial, then. I loved growing up in the ‘90s and early 2000s. Saturday nights meant packed skating rinks in Akron, Ohio. People might’ve chilled by the tables, but once B2K or Lil’ Bow Wow came on, the rink turned into a dance floor. Later, I graduated to house parties and teen clubs — before bottle service ruined the vibe—dancing to the radio version of “Wait (The Whisper Song)” by the Ying Yang Twins and Bobby Valentino’s “Tell Me.” If your hair wasn’t sweated out by the end of the night, did you even go?

    My only regret? Not going to a single Scream Tour. No band tee. No shared stories. That regret was solidified early because I couldn’t come to school with the iconic B2K or Bow Wow paraphernalia. I don’t know if my parents missed the memo or just refused to sit through a concert full of screaming teens, but it’s an experience I had to sit out and could never connect with friends about —until now.

    One of my friends gave me the chance to go to The Millennium Tour at Wintrust Arena in Chicago. This was my redemption arc. I was finally going to make my teenage self proud. And there was no way I was missing out (again) on artists who shaped one of the best eras of my life.

    We were raised on hope and were told to dream big — even when life didn’t deliver on that promise. And for one night, the music gave us that promise back.

    Look, I didn’t love showing up before the 8 p.m. start time (millennials are aunties now, but that doesn’t mean we roll up early). But my friend insisted, mainly for merch and drinks, and I’m glad she did because the moment I got that band tee (20 years late), the nostalgia hit hard. It also gave me a chance to witness the full millennial collective experience through fashion. All around me were women in jersey dresses, velour Juicy Couture tracksuits, airbrushed tees and braids with bandana scarves. The “twisties in the front, curls in the back” generation had entered the building.

    I was already impressed by the crowd before the music even started. 

    Nivea kicked things off and instantly took me back to my burned CD playlist era. She sang “Laundromat” and “Don’t Mess With My Man” like no time had passed. The Ying Yang Twins followed, and once they started performing “Whistle While You Twurk,” it was over. Nobody was sitting down when “Get Low” came on. That track still hits like it did in 2002.

    We had a quick moment to catch our breath and recover before RSVP — which stands for Ray J, Sammie, Bobby V and Pleasure P, took the stage and did a 30-minute mash-up of their hits. Ray-J’s “Wait a Minute” is still in my rotation. But Sammie? Sammie was the one.

    Dressed in black leather pants and no shirt, Sammie looked at the crowd and said, “Let’s show them who the f**k I am,” right before going into his 1999 hit “I Like It.” The way we screamed that hook like our car notes and rent depended on it? Unmatched.

    Sammie didn’t have to do too much because we sang our hearts out word for word and without missing a beat. His From the Bottom To The Top was the first album my parents bought for me, nearly 25 years ago. While his debut R&B album remains timeless, Sammie reminded me of—dare I say—the good ol’ days. It was that moment where I felt, “You just had to be there” to understand what these songs mean to Black millennials.

    But the moment that resonated the deepest for me was when Bow Wow walked out. Maybe it’s the Ohio pride, but I was beaming seeing him in custom white, gray and red Air Force 1s with “OSU” etched on the side for The Ohio State University. Outside of LeBron James and a few others, Bow Wow’s roots in Ohio was something I was always proud of growing up. He kicked off “Take Ya Home” with the Harlem Shake and I swear, I was transported. He even brought out Twista, who I hadn’t seen in years.

    You’d think after more than 20 years of touring Bow Wow, Omarion and Trey Songz might’ve lacked the energy to put on a show that millennials desperately needed— but no. They still brought it.

    Sure, there were a few corny moments. I didn’t need the animated ice on the screen during Omarion’s performance of “Ice.” And Kaine from the Ying Yang Twins air-humping the stage? Sir, please. This isn’t 2005.

    There’s science behind why concerts like this strike such an emotional chord. Studies show that live music activates multiple areas in the brain tied to emotion, memory and reward.

    But here’s the thing: with all the talk about millennials being stuck in the past, I would argue that remembering where you’ve been helps you figure out where you are going. And there’s science behind why concerts like this strike such an emotional chord. Studies show that live music activates multiple areas in the brain tied to emotion, memory and reward.

    When we hear songs from our youth, our brains literally and figuratively light up — not just with recognition, but with emotional intensity. Music can trigger dopamine which is the same feel-good chemical sparked by love and good food. And nostalgia? It’s been proven to lower stress, increase optimism and even make people feel physically warmer.

    So when 10,000 people packed that arena, dripping sweat, screaming lyrics from our flip-phone days, that wasn’t delusion. It was collective healing. A reminder of who we were, who we are and how far we’ve come.

    Millennials carry a lot. Research shows that we have a higher rate of depression than any other generation. We were raised on hope and were told to dream big — even when life didn’t deliver on that promise. And for one night, the music gave us that promise back.

    Our parents and teachers taught us that “if you can believe it, you can achieve it,” which is only partially true. Some of us got hit with a reality check later in life. There was a massive technological revolution where we went from VHS tapes to streaming and Polaroids to constantly posting on social media in a blink of an eye. 

    Then, we entered adulthood during a financial crisis and recession where we were taught to still go to school despite there being fewer jobs. Many of my friends have crippling student loan debt tied to a degree they can barely use. And the likelihood to own a home grows more grim each day, especially if you didn’t buy a house before 2020. 

    Despite what other generations say about millennials being stuck in the past, the Millennium Tour proved that some things are worth returning to. Both shows sold out the 10,000-seat arena, and for three hours, our childhood soundtracks reminded us what joy used to feel like complete with sweaty hair, sore feet and full hearts.

    That night, I left with no voice, frizzy edges and a deep sense of gratitude for the era that raised me. When fun was real, dancing was mandatory and the music carried a whole different weight than it does now. The energy? Healing.

    And yes, this auntie was in bed before midnight because let’s be real grown joy comes with a bedtime, too. 
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  • Introducing: The Shopping Show You Didn’t Know You Were Missing

    Introducing: The Shopping Show You Didn’t Know You Were Missing

    Let’s say you RSVP’d yes to a wedding this summer. The only problem: The dress code says “fancy goth ranch”…which is supposed to mean what, exactly? Decoding wedding guest dress codes and solving other real-life sartorial dilemmas are just a couple of things that our new R29 Fitted shopping show, done in partnership with Amazon Live, will tackle.

    In our five-episode series, we’ll be giving our five-star recs, doling out advice and hacks (like how to sweat-proof your look or hem a dress at a moment’s notice), and spotlighting the trends we’re loving right now. 

    First up: an entire episode dedicated to piecing together a summer capsule wardrobe. Yes, you need one. Yes, it’ll streamline your getting-ready process. Yes, your life will change forever (no, we’re not being dramatic). In the segment, co-hosts and styling duo Danielle and Alix will show you how to build (and wear) the ultimate, non-boring 29-piece capsule that’ll reflect your personal style. Watch and shop the Summer Capsule Wardrobe episode now. 

    Throughout the next couple of months, tune in to watch for style advice, ‘fit ideas, and so, so much more. 

    Episode 2: Wedding Guest Fashion (live date: May 27)Episode 3: Swimwear Problems, Solved (live date: June 9)Episode 4: Packing Like A Pro (live date: June 24)Episode 5: Summer Workwear 101 (live date: July 7)
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